Just how important is virginity? Should it be discarded as just some old-fashioned tale or tradition, or is it something to be kept as sacred prize or gift. In this four part write up we will be looking into this.
VIRGINITY TODAY
Does virginity still have a place in modern society, or should it be considered old-fashioned or tossed aside? While some people may be of the opinion that virginity is not a direct indication of how moral or immoral a person is, I and generally most part of the world will always claim its significance. And while some believe that to put a guide or check on one’s sexual desires shows a high respect for moral values and strong sense of identity and self-worth, others wonder whether a spirit of liberation and independence is not preferable.
Another important question is how virginity should be defined. Should it be narrowed down to the presence of the hymen? Is it right to look at virginity merely as a physical state, ignoring the persons mental and emotional state? Some ask if virginity should be restricted to when the penis as penetrated the vagina: what about people who encourage other forms of sexual intimacy that bypass penetrations? Are these people to be considered virgins?
Way back in the 13th century, philosopher Albertus Magnus proposed four different types of virginity
1. Natural Virginity ; you’re a baby , you’re born with it
2. Avowed Virginity ; you take an oath of celibacy
3. Informal Virginity ; a personal choice , usually temporary
4. Questionable Virginity; you say you’re virgin, but you certainly don’t look, talk or act like one .
In an era where women are adopting more demanding roles, the idea of virginity could be very welcome – maybe there is some truth to its association with independence, power and influence. However, the importance of virginity often hits home with an unwanted pregnancy or STI , accompanied by low-self-esteem and shattered emotions and expectations .
In The end, the decision to remain a virgin or not is matter of personal choice, with its own particular consequences. Be sure you are prepared to pay the price for the way you have chosen
(Part 2 will be released in a few days )
Brume Sip Anthony
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